Fatigue

Hi TMfighter,

Do you have a diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis?

Sorry to hear that

If your mother went to your Neurology appointments she might have a better understanding. There are some people who will always try to "one up" you, even with health problems and pain. There isn't much you can do about your mother if she fits into that, but you can protect yourself by not discussing your pain....I'm sorry, I know that sucks.

It could be just a simple misunderstanding on your mother's part, but if she has always been this way she isn't going to change.

It's nice to hear she is trying. Would it be possible for her to go with you to one of your Neurology appointments, if so this might help her to understand. Even if she doesn't understand hopefully she as empathy for what you are experiencing.

TMfiighter,

I'm so sorry to hear of your struggles. It seems like some people never know the appropriate response when we describe our health experiences. It must really hurt that you're having to deal with this from your own mother. I'm very sorry.

Snoopy has a good idea here. I think this could help her to understand the depth of what you experience. Your mom seems to need to have her own feelings affirmed. Perhaps if you do that, she may be open to listening to what you're dealing with. She may still want to say she's suffering more. You may need to find your support elsewhere. It's a sad situation. It can really bring you down.

I hope you find real relief soon. Please keep us posted as to how you're doing.