Hi everyone!
Tracy,
I don't know about anismus...is that the same as pelvic floor dysfunction? I know I have that; I had a 10 lb. 3 oz baby naturally 28 years ago and my doctor blamed it on that. I also had cyctocele surgery last October, so I know I have issues there. It is SO uncomfortable when I feel like my rectum is full.....before surgery I could go several days without a BM and not feel too terrible. I think that was because the stool stayed in my colon and not my rectum. Now the stool obviously moves (but still slower than I had hoped) and gets to my rectum. I'd say about 75 % of the time it's hard to get out. Once in awhile it will come out, but not often anymore nless I drink grape or prune juice. I use suppositories sometimes, (not with the juice though) and it definitely helps, but my rear is so sore and really stings if I use one. Before surgery I'd use them but never was sore like this...not sure why. I also have used an enema a couple times. My surgeon told me I could use enemas, I use fleets but wonder if I should just do water enemas. I hate doing them, but they do help.
Tinkerbell,
I had surgery on March 18, so it's been almost 4 months. Yep, it ws 8 feet long! My eating hasn't changed as much as I thought it would. I stayed on low residue for the first coupld months, and still don't eat much fat, etc. I'm not sure if I'm better or not, definitely different. Some days I feel great, but I can't eat like I thought I'd be able to. It's not the type of food, but the amount. I can't eat much at all; if I eat what I used to consider a normal portion, I'm full and within a couple hours feel terrible if I can't go at all. It's just not what I expected. I drink grape or prune juice most nights but they give me diarrhea, but I don't care. I had a few weeks of feeling great, going great and I got spoiled! Now when I eat I worry about when it will come out; just like old times. The one benefit is that I lost 12 pounds and am at the weight I've tried to get to for years!!
Hodaya,
You poor thing. I'm so sorry you can't get a straight answer from anyone. I totally understand how frustrated you are. What did you say to the Dr. today? I hope you told him how horrible all this is for you!
My dr. appointment with my surgeon is on Thursday. I will definitely tell him what's going on with me. I also see the hematologist on Tuesday to see if my blood clot is gone and if I passed the "clotting" test. I had another cat scan done Friday, so hopefully the blood clot is gone and I won't have to take any medicine.
On a happier note, has anyone heard of havanese dogs? I thnk we're going to get one, I'm going to look at a couple pups later in the week. They are the cutest dogs and supposed to be really sweet, loveable and smart. If you've ever been to a circus and seen the little fluffy dog doing tricks, that's a havanese! We lost both our little dachshunds in the last 3 years and we took a break from dogs for awhile. Losing them is just too difficult. I think we're ready again though. I miss having a little pup around to sit in my lap and give me kisses. I have a super sweet Maine Coon cat, but he's only super sweet when he wants to be!!
Janie