If you are using Skin Prep only use it right around the stoma...it causes the tape part to lift when wet...so if you've covered the entire area with the prep the tape lifts during the shower or bath
There is no reason to not get the appliance wet...use the Sure Seal and you won't have any problems and they last for the entire wafer life
(I just spent 9 days swimming in the Atlantic and had NO issues
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