Did they tell you that your stoma might shrink in size after about 30 days, I found this out the hard way was cutting wafer 1 1/4 started noticeing bad stinging went to ostomy nurse she refitted me to 7/8 she was life saver. You really want it to fit just over your stoma I also use small amount of the paste not much you can get your finger wet and form the paste. not sure if any of this helped you.
I have had mine since August 2010 had retal cancer removed. Please make sure to ask your nurse about shrinking stoma have them refit you.
Dale