Posted 11/20/2011 9:38 PM (GMT 0)
Newone, you are most welcome, like Alibee, I always wanted to help others after endured and survived my rectal cancer/resection/temp ostomy. This entire bowel issues area was so new to me, I was of the camp that could eat anything I had wanted and then have one bm per day. Now my life is so far from that former life, it's almost a blur. I well remember those early post-op days, they can be very brutal and it's best to take things slow with returning to food. With Thanksgiving coming up, be careful that day, I would strongly recommend against consuming a normal/regular sized TH meal. And don't listen to others if they think they know best, only you know best (and your doctor). I would just sweetly smile at them thanking them for their helpful advice, but if it's not good for you, then ignore it. This is YOUR body we are talking about. Back when I was pigging out on meals my neighbors were dropping off, even my husband was saying - I don't know if you should have this. But after you haven't eaten for a long, long time while in the hospital food tastes so good so you can easily throw caution to the wind. My best advice is listen to your intuition, if something appeals to you but you think you'd better wait a few weeks to eat it (eggnog might be one example), then enjoy it later. Not now.
I will say there is one thing you can do to speed things along and it sounds crazy but walking is what all the medical experts recommend. I would just walk thru our first floor rooms, Living Room, foyer, Dining Room, then into the kitchen and back thru again, 10 times at a time. Then I'd walk around our house outside (this must have looked silly to neighbors, but who cares). Eventually I walked around an elementary our street backs up to after school hours. One PTA mom I knew at the time said - what the heck are you doing? It was drizzling. I laughed and said - oh this, I want my strength back (but I didn't say I want to regulate my bowels too). Over time we bought a treadmill so I could stop it if I needed a bathroom run. I learned the hard way how beneficial putting one foot in front of the other is after having had major surgery.
Keep us posted on your progress.