sex life after reversal

what do you mean by your incesion? one on your stomace. im glad your out there and having fun im still not feeling ready it try yet i think the problem is im still having lots of BM and do want to risk any accidents :/ x

You might not want to hear this, Jackie, but....

If you aren't comfortable enough with the person you are having sex with to let them know that something they are doing is hurting or causing discomfort, then maybe that isn't someone you should be having sex with.

Just my opinion. I know you'll do what you want. I was 18 once.

thanks for all the advice ive got on here, i finaly felt ready and did the deed (had sex) last night a month after my operation and althought it was strange at first without the bag i felt more comftable getting undressed. he was realy careful and conciderate too and i didnt even have to tell him to be, i think if i hadnt have got everyones advise id have been more worried about it and wouldnt have been able to go through with it so soon so thanks again to everyone x