Welcome! Great questions. I'll do my best to answer them one-by-one.
Did you have ulcerative colitis? No, I had Crohn's.
What were your symptoms like pre-surgery? Chronic diarrhea, pain, anemia, dehydration.
What was your diet pre-surgery? Limited to baked chicken or fish and cooked veggies.
What medications had you tried? Remicade, Imuran, Azapriothine, Asacol, Prednisone, Flagyl, Cipro.
What ultimately made you decide to have the surgery? After 7 years of trying every medicine, I was told by 2 Gastroenterologists and 2 Colorectal surgeons that I had to have surgery, because my colon was so diseased. Plus, I was sick and tired of being sick and tired.
What details can you give me details about
preparing for surgery? For mental preparation, I made a list of pro's and con's. A huge pro for you with UC is that surgery is a cure. Another pro is that you will never have to worry about
getting colon cancer. The physical surgery prep is just like prepping for a colonoscopy, which I'm sure you've done enough times by now. That's another pro... no more colonoscopies!
What recommendations do you have for finding an excellent surgeon? My gastroenterologist recommended a colorectal surgeon for me, and I trusted her. I live in a city of over 100,000 people, so there are a lot of surgeons to choose from. Many people highly recommend Cleveland Clinic in Ohio and Florida, if you are able to travel to either place.
What are your thoughts and experiences with the surgery itself? Yes, it was painful at first, but they keep you very comfortable with pain medicine and the pain goes away, unlike the constant pain I had before surgery.
Were you awake and alert
for the surgeries or did they put you under? Oh, I was out!
What can you tell me about
recovery? (for both surgeries) I had disease in the colon and rectum and was not a candidate for a j-pouch. I had the ileostomy surgery first and then a proctocolectomy 8 months later. Recovery from the ileostomy was tougher than the proctocolectomy, because my ileo didn't work for 12 days after surgery. I was throwing up, got dehydrated, and was in the hospital for 3 weeks. That is not normal, but it can happen. The recovery from the procto was surprisingly quick. I was out of the hospital in 4 days and was off work for the recommended 6 weeks, even though I was able to drive and grocery shop only 2 weeks after surgery.
What was your most difficult part of recovery? (for both surgeries?) The ileo not working for 12 days was rough, the long incision in my stomach was painful, but all in all, it was all worth it to be healthy again.
How was sleeping with the temporary ileostomy? Do you have to stay in a certain position or limit your movement? In the beginning, I slept on my back and could sleep on either side, if I hugged a pillow. It wasn't long before I could also sleep on my stomach, which I like to do, too.
How often did you have to empty the bag? How often did you replace the bag? I empty every couple of hours when I go to the bathroom to pee. I change the wafer, which is what holds the bag to my stomach, once a week, and snap on a new bag every 3-4 days.
I currently work a full-time office job. How much time should I expect to be away while preparing for and recovering from surgery? (for both surgeries) For me, I was off work 6 weeks for each surgery.
Do you require any medications now? I haven't taken or needed any medication since surgery (except pain meds in the beginning), because I have been disease-free.
What is your diet like now? I can eat anything I want and don't have any problems.
Do certain foods affect you differently? (veggies, salads, nuts, grains, alcohol vs bland foods) Nope.
What inconveniences do you have in your day-to-day life post-surgery? None.
How many times during the day do you have to use the bathroom now? I just go there to pee, and empty the pouch while I'm there, so not that often.
Do you expect any changes for yourself 15 or 20 years down the road? Since I'm healthy, I expect to stay healthy.
Finally, and suggestions or tips for me? If you've tried all of the meds and are still having flare-up's, I think you will be happy to get your life and health back by having surgery. Since you are able to have a j-pouch, you won't have to be concerned about
any body image issues that some people have with a permanent ostomy. I was already married when I got sick with Crohn's, and my husband has been extremely supportive, so I don't have any negative body issues with it. We're both just happy that surgery gave me my life back.
Good luck with your decision!
Cecilia