I need an Eakin seal and am very "anal" about
heat & pressure. I use my hairdryer to warm both my Eakin & my wafer right before placing them, separately. I then alternate heat & pressure over all for 3 mins or so once the wafer is on, before applying a Sure Seal. I am careful to shield my stoma from the heat with a cap from a can of mousse [courtesy of Another UC Wife] or my "gadget" linked to below.
I switched to a whole Eakin, Convatec Convex Moldable [applied diamond-shaped], Sure Seals and my heat & pressure routine all at the same time and something finally clicked and saved my sanity. I am now consistently getting 7 days wear, up from only 2-hrs to 2-days wear.
There is one other thing I do during my pressure step to help solidly set the Eakin & wafer. There is a product available for quite a bit of money, but there are alternatives to the concept. It is the Equalizer by Stomaplex--nothing more than a section of rubber tubing. You can see how it works and there are a couple of videos within this first link below. I went to Lowe's and bought a foot of rubber tubing and my son cut me off a 2-inch piece--and it worked perfectly. The other link is to my "gadget" found in the PVC plumbing department at Home Depot. These caps can be purchased in different sizes depending on stoma size and flange size. All the same concept of even and steady pressure on the wafer around the stoma where it may be hard to get fingers into. Even the top of a correctly sized empty bottle would work. I use my "gadget" now in place of the rubber tubing because it also works to shield my stoma from the heat of my hairdryer.
http://shop.stomaplex.com/stomaplex-the-equalizer/