Posted 8/15/2014 5:44 PM (GMT 0)
Silent Lucidity - I am hesitant about the takedown surgery because of all the complications/ issues I see online. There seems to be a lot! I have been very lucky and have done very well with my loop ileostomy. It stays on well, only 4 leaks in 11 months, mostly in the beginning when I was getting used to it andy skin does not have reactions to the adhesive. I do not have any pain now and can mostly control when I have to empty the pouch. I would certainly hope that I would have the average result my surgeon says is 5-6 BMs a day and 1 at night. not to have to worry about bag changes, planning every minute of what your activities will be so that you are prepared,and being able to have my kids up on my lap again would be fabulous. But what about pouchitis, fistulas, butt burn, diet issues, and the possibly of having 15-20 bowel movements a day if you are the unlucky one. I have 2 younger children and they have finally begun to get their mom back. If I do the surgery, I would hope that I would feel able to fully engage with them even more and start to feel even more like myself. But if I am not one of the lucky ones, I am afraid I will feel that I took their mom away again. Because I was so sick when I got my surgery, my surgeon just said jpouch was the way to go and I went along with it. So now, if I stay with the ileostomy, then I have the J pouch just sitting in there and 12 inches of small intestine that is not absorbing nutrients or helping to learn to retain water for me. In addition, not to share too much information, but we've all been through a lot of different things... I have to empty my j-pouch mucus several times a day. If I stayed with the ileostomy, I would still be emptying from my bottom periodically. I had some heart complications following my first surgery and it has been an uphill battle to get to this point.I just wish there was a way I could be sure that the 90-95% success rate surgeons tell me about is accurate, when all there seems to be is mostly problems online. I haven't read about many j pouchers out there hiking, boating, etc. I would love to hear from some!
Blue Heron - you are an inspiration.thank you for the information about the stoma protection belts and guard. I went hiking on the Colorado Trail for a day hike this summer.I carried a very light pack that did not require a hip belt.Trying to figure out how much water to drink was interesting! I think I drank too much as I was always having to stop to use the restroom the other way! Lol I was not aware we could lay on our stomachs. I haven't done that in a year - not sleeping, during a massage, etc. That doesn't bother you?
Is there anyone on the site that decided to keep their diverting loop ileostomy but still has their j pouch inside? Thanks so much for your help. It helps to run these things by people who are living it.