Posted 11/5/2015 3:30 PM (GMT 0)
Jeez. No offense, but that's the kind of story which sends a chill through my heart. On the other hand, an ileostomy could be the only thing to put you into remission. I had an ileostomy for 2 and a half years before having takedown surgery - unlike you, I didn't have a j-pouch created, my ileum was connected to my rectum (or, technically, what was left of my sigmoid colon).
My small bowel was in remission the whole time I had an ileostomy. I suspect it wouldn't have lasted forever - partly because of the nature of Crohn's to come back and partly because of slightly iffy pre-op blood test results. However, I could have had a few more years before obvious symptoms emerged. As it was, my Crohn's came back almost straight after surgery and I'm seriously considering going back to a permanent ileostomy.
Your immediate Crohn's issues should be solved if you have an ileostomy: the abdominal pain, the dilation (which is probably caused by the bowel trying to force the bowel contents through a narrowed part), etc. I just wish I could promise you it would last, but I don't know. On the other hand, it is your best chance and I don't think you have many acceptable alternatives left at this rate.
Oh yeah, if it's relevant, I had terminal ileum disease for 13 years before surgery, so when I had the ileostomy done, it wasn't like I had never had small bowel disease because I had. And I'm sure that's dreadful grammar, but I'm too sleep deprived to try to word it any better.
Really hope you can catch a break :-/