I am so sorry you both are suffering in so much pain with these hernias.
CP64
When will they be surgically repairing yours? Does limiting your diet to soft foods help your pain? How about drugs, like maybe Bentyl to ease spasms?
GILLCOM
When is your reversal scheduled for? (I just read your other post and saw that it is scheduled for the end of January.) Have you been able to take anything to help your pain? Is it painful all the time or just when you eat?
I have had my ileostomy for 23 years and have been really lucky in this respect. I'm curious tho. I've had my share of adhesions and partial bowel obstructions due to kinks or adhesions. When this happens to me, I go on a clear liquid diet and take pain meds and it usually passes in a few days. But it is extremely painful. I have some idea what that kind of pain is like and really wish there was an easy fix for you. You both are in my thoughts...