Hello Helpless Husband,
I hope you will not feel so helpless. Coming to a forum is a good thing to get help!
I have had pancreatitis since I was 18 years old. I know that your wife is being well taken care of in the hospital. I want to send you to a site that deals with pancreatitis. I am sorry it is not a Forum, but just a lot of information.
Amazingly, this was sent to me about 2 hours ago by one of our Forum Moderators! (Thanks CrohnieToo!)
Here it is, just click on the purple:
http://www.sjmercyhealth.org/body.cfm?id=431&action=detail&aeproductid=HW_Catholic&aearticleid=uf4337
You and your wife can e-mail me if you want to. I have had a lot of experience in dealing with Pancreatitis.
God bless and stay well,
Madelyn