Welcome, sxu!
I think it's great that you're informed about
the side effects of taking prednisone and immunosuppressors, as well as the increased risk of colon cancer, and are
open to the idea of having surgery. I wish I would have had the surgery years sooner, because it is amazing to be healthy and to not have to take any medicine anymore. I also have the peace of mind in knowing that I will never get colon or rectal cancer.
Living with an ileostomy is amazingly easy, at least I think so. It doesn't stop me from doing anything, and it's so discreet under my clothes, nobody can tell I have one. It has become a natural part of me, so I honestly forget it's there (unlike Crohn's, which always let me know it was there!)
Anyway, good luck with your decision, and please feel free to ask us any questions you may have. We're all here to help!
Cecilia