Wow - Thanks Mary!! That is such great info and I really appreciate you taking the time to write back. My resection was really low, close to the rectum. They only took away about 2 inches, just enough to do the resection. My ileostomy is very high so I have had only fluid in my pouch the whole time. But that's not relevant. I liked your tip about bringing good shoes to the hospital - it reminded me that I hate that stupid slurping sound my slippers make and that I vowed to bring real shoes the next time!! I've walked a lot after my other surgeries so I'll do even more as you suggest.
Now I'm hopeful again that the recovery may not be as bad as I feared. I can work from home so I really should not stress about that. It's just that my job requires a lot of travel and I'm so anxious to get back in the game. But my first trip will be somewhere warm and sunny - a reward for getting that physical 2 years ago and following through with all the scary stuff that followed. I'll call it my "dodged the bullet" celebration trip !!
Thanks again, and Happy Valentine's Day. Connie