SUCH A GREAT DATE

Wow you sure are popular! Glad you had such a great time! Thanks for letting us know.

so the other guy hasnt even said anything since the "cancelled date" lol so im not to worry and if he does ask me ill just say ohhim seeing someone now .
and B'Dereh ...... u said that i said "he thinks the bag is so what?" are you asking me what he thinks of the bag ?????? if thats your question i think he doesnt thik much of it ohh and during the movie Mr. wiggles wasat it again and i turned to him and said you hear that it smiled and said yes we booth laughed i was like thats my stoma! it was actually more funny than embarassing :)

ohh i see yes i think he would still be like so what because i told him like the day before! we went out.
and the imodium is working better.

Congrats, Jackie! He sounds like a great guy!

hey you all today was great mr. wiggles was EXTREMLY ACTIVE but it was ok at one point i was in the bathroom for a while and he as like you ok in there lol iwas lowkey embarassed! but i actually shoed him my bag while it was full and he just said ok and i put bac in my pants lol! i deinetly think he is a keeper :)

ok so today was bumpy not because of my ostomy bag but he is a strong beliver of God and i have been through a lot and i belive in god/jesus but ig you could say i dont study the word. anyway i am a VERY Oopen MINDED PERSON since the surgery and realized how valuble life is a how greater it is. so i go to this group on wed. and it's native american based (they have a websit : allmyrelationsindy.com) long story short he felt that the place was witchcraft and as much as he tried to sugar coat it he said basically he thinks im studying it and he told me he want to be friends until i better my relationship with God and im thinking thats rude thats between you and God/ the higher being. but he broke up with me then i guess later in the day missed me because i diddnt feel like talking to him and we worked it out and he asked me how can he be a better boy friend and one thing that shocked me is he said that "he's scared to be with me kinda because of my health and e having surgery he doesnt want to loose me . " im thinking nobodys gonna die but i suppose that is normal to think when you dont know much about someones condition. sorry this is SO LONG but thanks for being curious and listning with love -jackie

omg my fellings are hurt i started talking to my boyfriend about sex ... and he said that he wouldn't have sex with me becuse thats to close to poop !! my fellings are so hurt this kinda makes me want to cancel my surgery because u never know who really cares when yourat the top :/

lol yea it just makes me feel like if i am in my worse condition physically (but suprisingly i dont feel that way often). theni can now how ppl truely feel.....but im not really going to change my surgery date.

thanks for being honest! i guess it is something diffrent or mayb depending on how long you have known a person because this guy that i have known since 3rd grade we havebeen on and off sinceforever and no matter what happens in our life we are ALWAYS drawn back to each other!!!! i told him about my bag and he seemed to care some but diddnt feel it was such a bige deal but then again its always easier said than done!

Put yourself first. I'm a little confused, but I would step back from that one and be just as strong in your beliefs as he is in his.

So first he says he cannot respect your religious ideas or beliefs as they do not agree with his and then he says he couldn't consider having sex with you if you have a bag as it is too close to poop. You say he is a very religious person, well the first thought that springs to mind is he really needs to go back to basics in his religious thoughts as he is being obnoxious, rude and selfish. Dump this prat before you get upset by anything else he says and tell him if being religious is to be like him then you would rather run naked down the street screaming 'the devil is coming' swinging your bag around in a provoctaive manner. lol

Seriously, he is a muppet and sounds incredibly immature and pathetic. Most religions state that other people's beliefs are to be respected and understood. With regard to your surgery, do what feels right for you not what other people want. You are the one who has to live with it not them.

So dump him, enjoy your new relish for life and move on.

i LOVE THIS WEBSITE <3 some thing i cant talk about with my mom or people that are close to me but lifehas it's way of working out for the best :) ....tommorw is the little girls funeral that passed away last week and i am not able to go because my mom is not able to handle baby funerals (which i can understand ) long story short i spent all day trying to figure how to get to the funeral tommrow because its an hour away from me. long story short i was comming up with crazy was to get there like using my moms car becase this girl has made A HUGE IMPACT ON MY LIFE which i cant even understand yet but by her death something inside me was able to move foward with the surgery and i know only because of her death something came over me. and i know i need to thank her i have came with an understandment that i cant go to her funeral so i decided to have my own for her. there is a trail near my house that tommrow i am going to walk to thank her on my own time in my own way to give my self clouser. and the guy i go with couldnt understand why i needed to go to this funneral he said to me with all do respect(thats when you know its going to seem disrespectful" ) you dont know her and then he asked me why are you trying to get to the funneral so bad shes dead anyway -it sounds mean the way i wrote but it was hurtful to me. that moment i realize i need someone who is sympathatic in my life or ampythatic :)