Posted 6/22/2014 1:26 AM (GMT 0)
Which 2 piece system are you using? I use the hollister 2 piece and I've found that their floating flange design for their wafers is pretty great as far as comfort and adaptability of body position goes. The only time I feel like people can tell it's under my shirt is when the bag has some air in it. Admittedly, I am still pretty skinny though (5'10" and 142 lbs).
I've never tried them but one piece systems are said to be a little more discreet. It would make sense considering everything is already put together and there is no extra gap to allow for attaching the pieces together. I'm sure someone here will be able to give you more info on that.
Finally, when I go out I wear something called a Stealth Belt. It's essentially like a fanny pack that covers the bag underneath your clothes. It does bulge a little as the bag fills, but since the belt wraps around your torso to me it's always just looked like my belly is a little bigger - and again it's only once the bag gets pretty full. It's worked great for my confidence and peace of mind when out. It is a little pricey (about $100 for a basic one) but I've found it to be well worth it.
And as with most things in life, personally I've found that I'm much more self conscious about things then I need to be. People are usually never worrying about or studying your every move as much as you are.
Are there any more specific "tricks" you were looking for?