Posted 4/5/2015 5:14 PM (GMT 0)
Hi Everyone, Happy Easter!
Things seem better today, output is finally a bit thicker, and swelling all over is a tiny bit better. Thanks for all the support and help.
I have some new questions:
1. Does anyone use an ostomy belt (the beige, 1" wide thing, hooks on to the little loops on pouch)? Do you find it helpful? How to put it on--seems like the tabs on the belt are too big for the loops on the pouch.
2. When emptying my bag, I do put toilet paper in the bowl to help w/ any splashing, but still have lots of little droplets splash out on me--really gross! What else to you do to prevent that from happening?
3. Telling others: I go to a depression support group every week (small group, same people every time), and the first 5-10 minutes are a type of silent meditation type thing. Last time I went to group, my ostomy starts pouring watery poo into the bag and farting. I feel like I want to just say something to the group to avoid feeling so paranoid/self conscious, but not sure how much/what to say. I have known these people for a while, but it's not like we're really close buddies or anything. Same question for people in my apt. building, other acquaintances, etc. The 3 surgeries I had seem like not things people feel comfortable talking about. What is appropriate to say? Seems like sometimes the less I tell a friend or whatever, I end up feeling more ashamed of my situation, like it's a bad secret.
4. I had a colostomy, so hopefully will have thicker output and have already started using bags w/ the filter on it. Problem is, sometimes the bag still fills up w/ gas, not sure why it would. Seems like sometimes the filter does it's job and others, not so much. And that's with the same bag. Any ideas or advice?
5. Odor: I'm comfortable emptying at home, and even in public bathrooms it's not too bad (cuz I don't know anyone and if it smells, I don't care as much what they think). But, scared at my friend's house. It's a fairly small apt. and I'm so embarrassed about the smell, and worried when someone goes into the bathroom after me. (And my friend does know all about my surgeries/health problems). I have been using Adapt odor "gel/liquid" stuff and the deodorant spray too, also tried putting peppermints in my bag, but it really does nothing. At home I use air freshener and even then, it just seems to combine the scent of poo with air freshener, which is not pleasant. Any ideas or suggestions?
Sorry for so many questions….just figured I could ask my ostomy nurse (who does have an ostomy), etc, but the best ideas/advice come from the variety of experiences people have on HW.
Thanks for the continued support. I am struggling, but would be having a much tougher time without all of you!
Sunny.