I got 2 wraps from edgepark and i love them both. One is lace and it's sexy. The other is a white wrap that is more sporty. It's stretchier and less cute but it's still attractive and it holds the bag flat to the body. I also got underwear and those are not cute at all. They seriously look like bloomers and they are loose on me. I got both of mine for free with my insurance which was a great surprise! I don't think you can go wrong with the wraps but I wouldn't get the underwear, they are awful.
Wraps are kind of awkward to put on the first time. I was wondering which way it went but the velcro piece goes up and you put the pouch in and velcro above. You choose right or left side. I am right side.
this is the sporty one i got. It may be unisex, not sure.
/www.edgepark.com/ostomy/ostomy-accessories/ostomy-care-supplies/tytex-carefix-stomasafe-plus-ostomy-support-belt-small-medium-white-33-1-2-to-43-1-2-hip-circumference/p/tyt32160202