Shaz032 said...
Also, write into the consent form that you want your stoma to stick out at least 1 inch or so AFTER all the swelling has gone down. Surgeons often make stomas flush to the skin because they think it looks better but they don't take into account the problems that patients will have with a flush stoma. If your stoma sticks out a bit, stool is better able to go into the bag (rather than under the wafer causing a leak).
Good luck.
Shaz
I'm not so sure you really need a full inch, to me that seems extreme, and easy to bruise bump. I've had 3 revisions since my first ostomy due to the Crohn's disease, and as long as the stoma sticks out further than the lip of the appliance, which is only 1/16 inches, the stoma works well. I've had them huge and I've had them flush, and a contract with the surgeon isn't going to give you any better results, it's all in how you heal, and how things adjust inside, and sometimes the skill of the surgeon. Sometimes your stoma is perfect in the first month or two, then because of your own body, it changes shape, size, whatever. My stoma also changes in size from hour to hour depending on my hydration level.
Anyway, I respectfully disagree with Shaz, I just don't think many surgeons will "promise" a 1" stoma. They do the best they can, and hope the stoma comes out well, and usually have a sense of pride when they do, but they can't promise or sign a contract, there's too many variables.