Ralph,
I am so sorry you have to go through such a challenging trial. My heart felt and most sincere prayers will be with you. Are you far from Salt Lake City? There are wonderful doctors there. My husband and I used to live in Orem and Provo. We loved Utah and my husband tells me he will move me back to the mountains someday. I truly hope you come through this surgery will a great conclusion. Please give someone your information so we can get updates on your progress while you are in the hospital.
Do you know when you are going to have the surgery?