Welcome Chuck!
You are one of the gang from Helen Diller @ UCSF. I am about 9 weeks out from surgery and doing very well. I can get erections on my own that are usuable. With Viagra, they are the same or better than before surgery. As far as orgasms, I have found sometimes they are intense and other times feel great but are not earth shattering. Just let time go along. Things get better. I suddenly got times better this week with bladder control. It was acceptable before, but this week I suddenly got control back like I was before surgery.
And although the erection /orgasm process is different than it was before, I actually think it is possibly better. My wife comments how much longer I last and with out any ejaculate, there is no mess.. .
So be patient, hang in there, and keep in touch!
Bill in the Central Valley