Amy,
You and your husband have my thoughts and prayers for a good outcome and that you have peace in your travels. I went to one of my connections and dug up a few discussions on Abiraterone. Mike Scott is doing a great job keeping all the prostate cancer advocacy groups together and informed. Here is that list of discussions...
http://en.wordpress.com/tag/abiraterone/
One man's story from London...
http://prostatecancerinfolink.ning.com/profile/Bernie
I hope these help. May peace be with you
Amy, we also had a member here on the trial, but he drew the placebo arm. He is a very dear friend of mine, and if you want to talk to him, I am certain he will be available...
Here is his link...
www.caringbridge.org/visit/walterwhited
Tony