Hey Mike, I'll weigh in one more time, then only respond if you have something specific for me.
Over the past few months, we have had several posters who have left this forum out of frustration. They were posters who chose treatments that were "different" than surgery (e.g TFT or active surveillance). Their frustration came from scenarios like this:
A new PCa patient arrives in our forum and is inundated with comments from guys who have had surgery. The surgery guys say "get it out", "the treatment is like going to a resort", "incontinence and ED were not issues for me", "you need to see the pathology to really know what is going on", etc, etc, etc, blah, blah, blah. Then the new patient genarally jumps on the bandwagon and goes for the knife...
I'm not saying that our ex-posters frustration is appropriate or not, I'm just raising the issue for your consideration as you review options. The fact is that treatment choice is a major decision and that surgery is the most severe choice. As one of our posters revealed this week, "In hindsight, I would have benefited greatly had I seen and analyzed the PCRI info and statistical evidence prior to settling upon da Vinci surgery. And I thought that I had done a lot of research - my fault. Now, at 24 months post-op, with total incontinence and complete ED, I spend more time and effort (and with considerably much less joy) trying to correct the incontinence and ED than I would be spending on "active surveillance". (And he went to one of the most experienced and well known surgeons in SW Florida).
This forum is filled with posts about guys trying to figure out how to become more continent and/or how to have some semblance of normal sex. With many recent studies showing PCa overtreatment, decide carefully...
OK...I'll probably get blasted for this, but I just wanted you give you some balance and food for thought...
Tudpock