We went today and it turned out to be an oncology nurse. She said the path report didn't indicate positive margins.The doctor told me they scraped alot at the rectum area but couldn't take it any closer. When the surgeon gave us the path report he said the only thing that mattered was the positive lymph node and was suggesting radiation and mentioned
hormone therapy, but said it was controversial. Anyway, before I brought up the positive margins issue, she was set on starting him on
hormones. I told her I thought it was the protocol with locally advanced cancer to start with radiation and then give hormones if theres a psa rise after radiation, indicating it's systemic. She told me that is true, but that he's a special case because he's only 47 and needs to take a more aggressive approach. She was ready to give him a hormone shot of zolodex on the spot, but agreed after what I said about
it being outside the capsule around the rectum that she needed to get the slides and determine whether there were positive margins before ruling out radiation. She seems intent on hormones regardless. She seemed pushy altogether, I think he needs a little time to think and should wait until he gets a second opinion from another oncologist. She also thought given his age that the hormones may only work about
6 months. I would GREATLY appreciate any feedback at all, today was rough.
Prayers out to all,
Dana