Thanks Red, and you're probably correct, but patience has never been my strong suit.
I really don't feel that I'm in the early stages of healing. I feel as if I'm past the healing part. As far as physical activity, I'm doing whatever I want to do whenever I need to do it. I have no pain issues at all, and only a little constipation as a reminder of the surgery. I feel that I'm completely healed up, and ready to get on with life.
I have read of other fellows who waited a year after surgery before working on the ED issues. I cannot find a reason to delay that.
The viagra type drugs will not help me because both nerves were lost during surgery. I have a VED ordered and it should be in tomorrow....and two failed injection attempts. If these things don't work, I guess an implant is my only other option.
Or just give up on sex altogether.........<not even a good thought>
Anyway, maybe you are right, and I thank you for the good wishes.
All I want is a good wood.
<sigh>