I have kind of a different problem

For the most part, I cant get erections, but I can have orgasms.

First welcome to the Forum, thanks for sharing your story. I read that orgasm is 90% mental and 10% physical. I think most guys go thru a period when they have a little 'difficulty', some with getting an erection and some with having trouble climaxing. I suspect there's a lot more who have the second that would admit it. I would suggest that the first step to take would be to retrain your brain. Things are probably all mixed up now, both in the brain and the nerves that provide sensation. We also can lose out edge or confidence, and even equate ejaculation to orgasm capability. Most ED docs would tell you to begin a steady and regular course of masterbution . Do it daily, if possible, use vibrators, hands, helpful spouse, with lots of lube , whatever works to get things going again. Once you have one, you will find they are different feeling. More spread out, more internal, and usually much more intense, you know the toe curling kinds. Good luck. let us know if you have any success.

That is a different problem. I can have orgasms but no erection, I leak 100% day time and very little at night. My problems seem to fit the usual profile but on the bad end of the curve. Yours being backwards to norm sounds like James may have a point about not being all physical. That might be easier to fix than the entirely physical issues. You didn't mention any physical therapy, you might want to look into that, in case you don't know, there is PT for unirary isses that mostly involve doing kegel exercises.
But on the other hand, your recovery from surgery has not been long compared to the norm, as I understand the "norm". I think more time to let things repair themselves and all this might be gone. To have errections and stay dry during the day is great, I think you will end up being one of the lucky ones.
Oh, told you you might have emotional issues and didn't even say hello. so hello! sorry some people might consider that as rude, and I guess it is. Anyway, I think you are doing great and take what you have as a gift and good luck and stick arround here, there is lots to learn from these guys.
Ron

The way I understand, the sperm is blocked off from getting to the prostate, an internal vasectomy. The ejaculate itself is a mixure of several chemicals to maintain the life of the sperm. Since the sperm is gone and the prostate is gone, there is no liquid left. Well, let me rephrase that. Some men still have their Cowper's gland. Some surgeons leave it. It's the gland that produces the clear pre-ejaculate lubrication, you know the one that shows first when we are stimulated. It's total is probably slight, but still detectable. As far as providing a sensation during the dry ejaculation, I don't think it plays a role.

As to what a dry ejaculation and orgasm feels like, to me it feels pretty similar to the old days. It is more intense and seems to come from more inside than before. The feeling of pleasure we get is still muscle contractions internally, just without the flow of ejaculate for them to force out. I think that's how that works.

(any vestiges of dignity checked at the door...)

I'm able to get useful erections with Levitra. I don't have any regular incontinence, but have had some trouble with incontinence at the point of orgasm. I find myself 'clenching' during sex due to concern about leakage at orgasm and have found that that delays or inhibits orgasm. I have to actively and conciously relax to get there. Not all bad, of course, as I can last as long as wanted or needed, but it is disruptive to have to be conciously involved during the act to get results. Not sure if this may bear on your issue or not, but thought I'd share in case.  I will also say that these results took considerable time to achieve.

I agree with JamesC description. Since my open Surgery, orgasms have been much deeper felt and last much longer, very intense but dry. I am in the fortunate few club and did not suffer any ED after surgery. I also have a working Cowper's Gland, and it makes the "tip" moist before the climax, as in the old days. Sometimes, at the point of now return, this tiny amount of fluid almost feels like a mini ejaculation.