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Posted 1/18/2011 1:11 AM (GMT 0)
Mary here,

We got Willie to the onc appointment today and the news is more than devastating.

The onc confirmed that the cancer is in his lungs and bones but wanted to send him home for another week of being desperately sick!! No way!

I insisted they admit him and find out why he cannot keep anything down other than a cup of water per day!!

Then, the onc stated that Willie may have brain mets and that they can prevent the GI tract from absorbing/accepting food and liquids!!!!!!

They're going to do a brain CAT scan tomorrow as well as other tests tonight.......but to what avail??

I am sooo angry right now.

This idiot doctor did NOTHING for over 5 months and now says Willie should be on chemo IF they can get him to keep anything down.

The only good thing is that Willie is not in pain but I am livid.

There are no words to express my anger nor my broken hearted-ness.

My beloved Willie is going to die due to this doc failing to 'do no harm'.

I'm heading back to the hospital now, had to come home and see to the dogs, put the lights on, etc.

Please send positive thoughts and prayers for Willie, my beloved needs all the help he can get.....

Thankyou.

Mary
Posted 1/18/2011 1:19 AM (GMT 0)
Mary,
My thoughts and prayers are said and sent. I hope that Willie's condition improves soon.

Tony
Posted 1/18/2011 2:41 AM (GMT 0)
I add my own. God love you, and continue to give you the strength you've shown so beautifully in your other posts. Wish with all my heart there was something more I could do...
Posted 1/18/2011 2:46 AM (GMT 0)
Mary -- Willie is in my thoughts every day.  he's fortunate to be pain-free and having such a loving wife. i wish the very best for both of you.

ed

 

Posted 1/18/2011 2:49 AM (GMT 0)
My prayers and thoughts will be with you.  Cooper
Posted 1/18/2011 2:54 AM (GMT 0)
mary, I am going thru a lot  my mother is very sick ,but I will keep you and willy in my prayers.God bless you and kepp you strong.

Posted 1/18/2011 2:55 AM (GMT 0)
Mary,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Posted 1/18/2011 3:13 AM (GMT 0)
May God comfort you and your husband.
Posted 1/18/2011 3:46 AM (GMT 0)
wishing, hoping, and praying for the best.
Posted 1/18/2011 3:49 AM (GMT 0)
Mary-
- we wish you peace in this sea of anger and turmoil - so you can keep a level head and hear (and demand) what is needed to help your husband.
-you are blessed to have the support around you and their kind thoughts and prayers-
- we hope you do get the answers and the solutions to help your Willie get stabilized and improve -

major hugs
BRONSON
Posted 1/18/2011 4:08 AM (GMT 0)
Mary, all the positive thoughts and prayers I can muster are flowing to you and Willie this evening.

In the wonderful words of our friend, BRONSON,

"major hugs,"

Sheldon AKA Sleepless
Posted 1/18/2011 7:23 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Mary,

So sorry for this hugh challenge for the both of you.

Here's wishing you and Willie comfort and a path to better health.

Barry

Posted 1/18/2011 11:27 AM (GMT 0)
That's really tough on both of you. It's times like this we get lost for words. I sure hope things turn around a little for you and Willie. My best wishes for enough of an improvement to enable chemo to be taken and have a positive effect.
Bill
Posted 1/18/2011 11:28 AM (GMT 0)
My prayers are with you. Hoping for Willie's good health.
Posted 1/18/2011 1:53 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear that things have worsened. he and you have been through such a tough time.

Ron

Posted 1/18/2011 2:19 PM (GMT 0)
I have no words, except to say that you are in my prayers.  God bless you and Willie and may He bring you comfort.
Posted 1/18/2011 2:22 PM (GMT 0)
Sorry to hear the news Mary, and your anger is understandable. But your love for Willie shines thru all of this. Prayers and thoughts for the two of you.
Michael
Posted 1/18/2011 3:31 PM (GMT 0)
I am so sorry to hear this news. I wish you all peace

Ray
Posted 1/18/2011 6:15 PM (GMT 0)
Mary
Just Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. There are no adequate words to express my feelings for you and Willie, but just know he is and will be in Gods hands.
Stay well and blessed
TTaylor
Posted 1/18/2011 7:10 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear that things have worsened. My prayers are with you and Willie.
Posted 1/18/2011 8:22 PM (GMT 0)
Mary,
I am so sorry to hear this news. Willie is a lucky man - he has you.
Peace
Jeff
Posted 1/18/2011 9:22 PM (GMT 0)
Mary,
I'm truly sorry about the news. I'll say a prayer for Willie and you.
Posted 1/18/2011 9:46 PM (GMT 0)
Mary,
Praying for you and Willie.
Please keep us posted.
steve
Posted 1/18/2011 9:51 PM (GMT 0)
My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Posted 1/18/2011 9:54 PM (GMT 0)
Thoughts and prayers to you both.
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