Help me let the anger go

Hi everyone: I know what you mean about trying to be anger free. I try and most days I can be , but than something will set me off and it's not a good day. Your right it's best to concentrate on my core family. I know the family that angers me it's just the way they are, but wow why do they have to be.... lol

Thank you everyone for your responses I do feel better and talking about it helps me cope.

I wish that in a real world things could be different and everyone would be understanding, but I know that is a dream. So I'd better just deal with things. I am a great one to back off from a confrontation and hope it goes away I have come to the conclusion from what everyone is saying that I need to state things in the clear and cope with people who are mean and selfish. I am going to a Councillor next week for some advise and help.

It just seems ironic to me that my husband (the one who is ill) is dealing with this much easier than I am. He just ways to me they don't matter who matters to him is his kids and me and the rest if they don't like it, can go to....... He is amazing to me and I think How can I be so lucky as to have him in my life.

Well enough of that mushy stuff. lol Thank you everyone I will be back I am sure for more support. Take care and be happy, after all isn't that what life is about.