Jimmy, welcome to HW. Sorry you have to be here but I'm sure you will find this is a good spot for both support and info.
Getting a second opinion on your pathology is a very good idea; sounds like you are on top of this and Bostwick is a good choice.
As JT said, you may want to consider treating your PCa with brachytherapy alone. With your stats that is likely to provide a cure and the chances of cure are just as high as with surgery. You will want to consult with an experienced radiation oncologist for a full discussion of your radiation options. As another poster said, ED is also a possibility with radiation treatment. What he left out was the fact that even though ED, if you experience it, is likely to occur later with radiation it is also likely to occur less frequently than with surgery. If quality of life is important to you, you might want to google "New England Journal of Medicine Quality of Life Study". This was done a couple of years ago and provides ample evidence of how patients view the less onerous side effects of brachytherapy compared to surgery.
If you are interested in reading a long-winded first party view of the brachytherapy experience, feel free to copy and paste my "journey" at the end of my signature. I'm coming up on three years post brachy with still falling PSA and no lingering side effects. And, as you can see, my early side effects were very minimal.
Good luck and keep us posted,
Tudpock (Jim)