Dear powellst:
First of all, welcome to HW. Sorry you have to be here but I'm sure you will find this is a good place for both information and support. After JustJulie, I think I'm the brachy patient with the longest tenure here and you are welcome to view my longwinded "journey" by copying and pasting the link at the end of my signature. Of course, my tenure doesn't give me any more clout than any of the other posters...just a longer period of time of a trouble free journey.
Here are some thoughts about your situation:
1. Good idea to get a second opinion on the biopsy slides and Bostwick is one of the acknowledged experts in the field.
2. I would recommend you continue to educate yourself on our disease. HW is a great place with plenty of links. Also, there are many books you can read on the subject. One is Dr. Walsh's, "Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer" which is chock full of info. Dr. Walsh is a prominent surgeon from JH. And, if you are thinking non-surgery, you might want to read Dr. Scholz' "Invasion of the Prostate Snatchers". His co-writer is a bit "out-there" in my opinion, but the chapters written by Scholz (a top prostate oncologist) are well worth the price of admission.
3. Your conclusion that brachytherapy cure rate is as good as surgery is supported by a number of long term studies. Even on this site, which tends to have a majority of surgery patients, there are few who would argue with that conclusion after the studies posted here in the past (particularly by JohnT).
4. Your conclusions about quality of life are also supported by the data. The urinary side effects from brachy are some short term frequency and urgency. From surgery they are incontinence that may be short or long term. The sexual side effects from surgery are about a 50% chance of lasting ED, while the ED from brachy is more like 35% and generally occurs after a couple of years if at all.
5. In addition to the QOL info quoted by JT, I would suggest you Google "New England Journal of Medicine Quality of LIfe Study". There you will see some eye opening comparisons favoring brachytherapy.
6. The main reasons someone with your stats might not qualify for brachy are (a) extra-large prostate (which can be shrunk with HT), pre-existing urinary problems (they will give you a questionnaire to determine this) or (c) with a palpable tumor and G7 they MAY recommend IMRT along with the brachy.
7. Don't be alarmed by those who suggest you have surgery so that you can "save" radiation for a backup plan. I find that to be a bogus argument for a couple of reasons, (a) if radiation works as a "backup" why not have it first and do it right the first time and (b) there are salvage treatments after failed brachytherapy that are just as effective as salvage radiation after failed surgery.
8. Dry orgasm is possible but not necessarily definte with brachy. JT evidently has it; JustJulie's hubby does not, nor do I. I have about 50% less liquid (so it appears - not measured!) but it feels exactly the same. Also there are other less publicized SE's of surgery such as ejaculating urine and shortening of the penis that you should consider but not all urologists will mention.
As you can probably tell, I am pro-getting-educated but also pro-brachytherapy. But, then again, why wouldn't I be. I researched the heck out of this when making my choice and valued QOL. And I now sit here pretty much the same as if this cancer never happened and only think about it when I come back to this site to support old friends or help new ones.
Good luck and please keep us posted,
Tudpock (Jim)