I'll buy the next round

great news about your PSA number, sorry to hear about your other life issues.

david in sc

congrats on the zero. hope the rest improves...

Congrats on the zero.
As for the rest... Positive thinking! And humour helps a little.

sfigato............

PS - figure out how to be lovers not fighters.........it makes it all worth while..........make each other happy!!!

Oh yes and vodka rocks, twist of lime.

Cheers to a lifetime of "undetectables"

Terry

No prostatectomy - no known cancer - but increasing age! I am 85. I find cialis, levitra, etc to be of no use. (What's the other one? No use either.) However, "Muse" works. But I have a strong feeling that my member is not as LONG as it used to be. Diameter no problem. Does that make sense? Can anything be done about it? Suggestions appreciated. Don't tell me "forget it!" please.

Gerry

PSA - Great!

Wife - Most Important Thing of all you mentioned! - Go work on that! Flirt! My guidelines

1. Flirting - Yes that is a good thing. It has been scientifically proven after dozens of rigid studies 8 times a day is the daily minimum requirement. However science has been unable to determine the specific times of day - though through diligent study the flirting must be spread out over the day. (ok I made up the scientifically proven part)

2. Flowers! - Yes! Frequently! When you go to the grocery store to get whatever pick up a nice assortment of flowers, bring then home and present to your lady - and flirt.

3. Tell her she has a nice a*s - Not really sure why this line works so well especially as I use it at least once a day . When I tell her, my lady still manages a blush and a "Ohhh Husband" as she struts about with a big smile on her face and a sparkle in her eyes. (see how this works into the daily minimum requirement of flirting?)

4. When you go out anyplace - Hold her hand. ( again works into the daily minimum requirement of flirting)

5. Last thing before you two go to sleep - tell her that you love her , hug and kiss her. (yup works into the daily minimum requirement of flirting)

6. First thing in the morning when you are both awake - tell her that you love her, hug and kiss her. (yes - flirting - notice a trend here?)

7. Before you leave the house for anything - Give her a kiss and a hug and tell her you love her (ayup - flirting! we are on a roll!)

8. First thing when you return to the house - think about it - Right! Give her a kiss and a hug and tell her you love her (more flirting!)

Go for it brother! Bring a smile to your wife's face and a sparkle to her eyes.

Hugs

Bud

PS: Oh and the all important do or die - Toilet seat UP first. DOWN when done. Violation of this negates all the day(s) flirting.

sfigato,

Good news on the PSA. As for fighting with your wife fight fair and remember that couples who don't care about each other don't fight much -- why would they bother?

81Gy,

Dear Abby is out of business. She died week before last. Bud is picking up her mantle.

Bud,

I have found a way to determine the correct level of flirting. You do it more or less constantly each day and notice the point at which your wife starts to find it annoying. That is your 80% mark. If there isn't a little too much she will suspect you are flirting for effect. If there is a bit more she will know you can't help yourself and be secretly flattered.

sfigato said...
18 month post, PSA still undetectable

ED - same sad story, spared nerves aren't helping much

Pain - now getting a lot of pain during infrequent Cialis assisted erections

Job - going to lose it soon, closing my office

Life - wife and I fight a lot, nothing new

I still have my sense of humor though...

 

Take care of little ED when he does perk up....The pain is because he is no longer used to being stretched out to diving board length.  SO when it is out there make yourself work him until you get the happy ending.  Don't waste them..He needs motivation... Everything has to be amped up a notch concerning him now...

don't give up and good luck on all the other issues...