Urine leakage during sex play.

I am six months out of Robotic Surgery.  90+% continent at present.  The only time I leak is under either high stress movements (like moving furniture), or when I am extremely tired, and in a sitting position.  I have been surprised by a wet spot on the bus ride home from work several times, after I have dozed off.  (I don't wear a pad during the day, but lately have been putting one in before boarding the bus.)

My only other time of leakage is during sexual play, and ejacuation.  No matter how hard I try to void my bladder prior, there is always some leakage, and my finale is always a water filled event.

Does anyone have tips, or anecdotal advise on how to stop this? Still do my kegels (although not as much as at the start of this journey)  do these help?  Does this go away?

PS, still suffering from ED, (I am on daily cialis and pump&release 3-5 times a week) but I am starting to show signs of life down there, can achieve partials, without the pump, and at this rate should be ready for prime time soon.  A couple of mornings a week I wake up with a smile (IYKWIM).

PPS Wife is EXTREMELY put off by urine leakage.

PPPS Wife and I were actually looking forward to dry orgasms (for reasons best not gotten into here). 

That sort of leakage is a common complaint here. Other than emptying well, and perhaps less fluid intake before, no one has had a good general solution.

Kegels are for life (per my uro). I see that when I slack off, leaks start to come back. 

What if you tried sex in the shower maybe your wife wouldn't be so put off? The leakage wouldn't be as noticable either.

Post Edited (p_elliott) : 5/16/2012 9:27:28 AM (GMT-6)

Thanks Guys

p_elliott - yup, That's her preferred spot, right now, problem is it's a little cramped.

Italian Guy, thanks, I'll backtrack and look it up.