Mel:
First of all I believe you are seeing one of the top PCa Docs in the country without a doubt, I hope his opinion trumps all but sometimes it doesn't hurt to beat some ideas around as long as you don't get overly sensitive about the responses and I've never know you to so here goes:
1. If I'm not mistaken I believe you and Lam have discussed Sand Lake and your decision to maybe allow it to develope a little more sounds spot on to me for you. Maybe even go thru one round of HT(with time on and off it should give you at least 2 1/2 to 3 years) which should allow the scan to be more widespread throughout the country and the spot radiation the same. Let's talk about QOL for a minute, I would tell you that the earlier you get on it the better QOL you would have over a longer period of time (I did 2 years of HT) meaning, you will probably be on HT for a shorter period of time if you start sooner and I would argue that your time off would be longer because you would hopefully drive the cancer father into a short term remission. Obviously I was pretty lucky with the side effects during my time on HT but the thing that no one can refute is you can stop anytime you want if things get too tough. Sure it takes a little time to get out of your system but you know that ultimately you will return to normal unless you have been on HT for a really extended period.
2. I believe that Dr. Lam falls in the group to not allow tumor burdens to grow, hit it hard and soon. Although in general I believe this to be the prevelant thinking I think it will become even more crystal clear with the new drug options and the ability to extend treatment. I'm obviously not an expert but I have never heard of any other cancer being allowed to grow for X amount of time before treatment begins, if it's there treat it. The idea is if there is no actual "cure" then this disease can be treated as a chronic issue, if it doesn't get too far out of hand originally, with the new options available. We're not there yet but hopefully we're not too far away.
3. You might ask him if you have the ability to start on something other than the usual ADT 3, maybe a clinical trial of Zytiga or MDV 3100. I understand that they're looking at both of these drugs much earlier in the rotation of meds.
Good luck
David
P.S. The avodart idea was fantastic, changing your PSADT from 3 months to 15 months is incredible, hell you're almost in with the AS bunch.