Jane,
I'm confused by your statement:
I am confused at the array of treatments on offer: EBRT, IGRT, IMRT and proton beam therapy. I am wondering whether proton therapy would be best, but I don't think that it is offered anywhere in the UK yet. Our consultant has not even heard of it!
When you say "on offer", I first think you are telling us that your doctor proposed those options, yet it seems that is not the case if it includes items your doctor is not aware of.
If you are simply looking at the various terms bantered around, it makes more sense. Here is a brutally simplified definition.
EBRT is external beam radiation therapy (RT). It is a generic term in the sense that all of what you mention is external beam. It is more significant if a facility used it to describe their system, because EBRT can mean modern and ancient. In it's "worst" application, it simply covered a box-shaped field, which would include other organs.
3D CRT uses computer software to better focus the beams
IMRT is intensity modulated RT. This is a type of EBRT that offers better focus of the radiation beam. This technology is still used, but is not state of the art at all.
IMRT is Intensity Modulated RT - a still more precise EBRT that allows better application of the radiation.
IGRT is Image guided RT - IMRT that uses additional systems to locate the target, and allow changes for very small movements of the organ. My IGRT used the Calypso system to be sure that the IMRT was focused each day correctly. My insurance considered it experimental in 2009, and refused to pay for the Calypso component.
Proton - a very precise RT that is intended for small tumors, but is also used for PCa. It is a much more expensive treatment available at limited facilities. My insurance would allow me to do it, but would only pay the standard costs for IMRT, which made it impossible for me.
So, EBRT is all of these. Ask for a little more detail if told "EBRT".
I suspect that if imaging tests can locate spots of PCa metastasis, Proton would be valid. If you are doing general prostate bed radiation just to "mop up", Proton would be likely just more expensive.
If the comparison were made without considering costs, proton is inviting.