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well things have progressed my husband is now in a wheel chair and has a catheter taking enough morphine to knock out 5 people he was walking around on Sunday but couldn't on Monday he is running a fever tonight and not very responsive not sure whats going on there have been many times i have cried over his change it has gone so fast he is down to 102 pounds he is not eating or drinking and when he does it comes back up thanks for reading

with all my love and prayers that no one else has to go through this
C.C.

Thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult time.

Andrew

I continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs
Susan

c.c. I am so sorry to hear this...prayers coming your way...try to hang in

CCc

What a wonderful example you are of a loving companion, even when your heart is breaking.

We all stand with you. I can only hope the remaining time you have together can be spent saying the things you want to say, remembering the good times, and helping each other through these difficult times.

Thanks so much for sharing with us.

Goodlife

CC

May you have strength and peace during this most difficult time
My prayer is for a comforting spirit for you and pain free rest for your husband
May hope arise for all of your family
Thank you for allowing all of us here to share in praying and thinking of your situation today
We are all moved with compassion and ask for blessings upon you and your husband's special time
I am reminded that the darkest hour is just before the dawn
May the dawn of a new day reflect the power you need to meet the challenges of the hour
God bless you

My prayers for you and your husband. I haven't stopped holding you in my thoughts.

CC.... My hart is so full reading this report. Im so sorry to hear this news. Know that both of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cajun Jeff

c.c.

In an above post goodlife said "... I can only hope the remaining time you have together can be spent saying the things you want to say ... "

That is oh, so true. I lost my own dear wife last year to heart trouble, and she went very quickly and unexpectedly. Because of that, I never got to say goodbye to her in the way I would have wanted to, to thank her for being such a wonderful wife and mother, to thank her for the oh so many other wonderful things we had together in our lives. I so regret that I never got the chance to say those things to her.

When I was younger I never understood it when people would say "but I never got a chance to say goodbye." "Does it matter that much?," I would ask myself.

Yes, yes, it does.

If your husband's time is truly short, I do urge you to "say the things you want to say," now, while you still can, if you haven't done so already. Later on you will be so happy you did.

Believe me, I know.

CC,

Please know that we all feel your pain,

 but know we are all here for you in hopes that you continue to have the strength

for what you have to endure, you and your family!

BOOGEE

You are both in our hearts and in our thoughts. Thank you for sharing.

Mike

CC,I have both of you in my prayers.

Thank you all very much :) for all the beautiful words:)
I just wanted to say that last week my husband and I cuddled on the couch and watched the Christmas story after wards we talked about everything we could think of and I let him know what an amazing man he is and that he is a wonderful husband and we talked about memories things we wish we had said along time ago when it was all said and done he looked at me and said "there are no words to describe what kind of wife you have been you have stood by me through the worst time of my life and laughed at me in the best parts I cherish you today just like I did when we got married .I don't want you to follow me to where i am going for many years to come but when you do I want you to know I will be there with open arms no matter what you do after I have gone no matter what man you marry ( I started crying at this point I couldnt hold it any longer ) I said I will never marry again he took my hand and put his arm around me and said baby girl I want you to when you are ready I do not want you to be alone I will rest better knowing that one day you will have someone to take care of you like you have done for me do not be sad for me I will not know the difference when this is over only you and our loved ones will feel the pain I will be up there partying like the ROCK STAR I am . I smiled and cried more you see he has always been my rock star and has always made a face when I call him that but I do it any way so calling him self that touched my heart and He will forever be my ROCKSTAR:) We have family here helping out and more coming for the Holidays we are well staffed so to speak lol

I just want to wish you all a very MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR
I will prolly not be on here til after everything is done
I pray for you all to have lots of love and joy this Christmas
your friend
C.C