My sincerest congrats Kurt - and like Clock I'm not surprised. You've been through alot my friend, and as many others have said, life's journey is so much sweeter with someone to share it all with.
And if "auf Wiedersehen, adieu" is your indirect way of saying you need to leave our community - I for one will certainly understand and respect that this may be one chapter of your journey that you'd like to close. . . .
As always, my best to you both. (I'd be happy to entertain an invite
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