Posted 4/10/2013 6:58 AM (GMT 0)
Dear James,
Sorry for the tardy reply, but I just came across this thread.
I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in March 09, at age 66. Fortunately for me, it was low level, 12 random cores, 2 positive Gleason 3+3=6 with less than 5 percent involvement., a PSA of 2.2 at that time.
At that time I started my research process to include meeting with specialist in various areas.
One of them was a radiation oncologist who told me that there was a 50 percent chance of of the cancer being outside the prostate, and wanted me to have all kinds of tests that were either not necessary or effective, told me that I had 8 weeks to make a decision, and wanted to do two types of treatments, bracky and IMRT at that time. My opinion was that this guy was self serving to put it mildly.
After this doc meeting, I came to the conclusion that I need to be informed and my own advocate since I believe that some docs can be biased, and I need to do my part in a strong patient doctor relationship that must exist.
My background is analytical and research oriented.
I started my process of studying this disease by reading many books, reading specialized magazines and papers, attending local prostate support groups as well as internet research. I have also been a frequent reader and poster at the csn.cancer site for prostate cancer.
I decided to be treated with an "Active Surveillance with Delayed Treatment if Necessary" protocol. In 2009 , I came across men and some docs who thought that I was out of my mind for not doing an "Active Treatment" protocol, and get rid of the CANCER.
I've had various diagnostic tests since. Four years later I am still being treated with AS. I am still hoping that my cancer is indolent and not a wolf in sheep's clothing. My next biopsy is scheduled for June.
Studies have shown that for the most part a man can still be treated with the original choice of treatment, in there is some progression of the disease noted in an Active Surveillance Program.
After research, and not being in the initial emotional frenzy of depression and all the negative feeling associated with same that we all experience, I am comfortable with my treatment option. I am able to avoid any possible side effects due to various treatments. If my cancer progresses I am comfortable with the treatment option that I will do which is different than I initially would have done.
Being diagnosed with PCa has changed my life in a good way, since I have become a warrior in many ways, raising money, educating others , and was an advocate for a friend that was diagnosed with a more PCa aggressive disease than I have....I gain a lot by helping others.