Squirting urine and a condom

Red,

Let me tell you a word that will solve all your problems. It super-cal-i-frag-i-list-ic-exp-... Ok, not really.

It's "Climacturea". It happens. When said with a British accent, like Phineas Fogg in the Explorers Club, it takes away most of the embarrassment. If the squirting bothers your wife you can wear a condom. If it mostly bothers you try putting a towel on the bed and using the word "climacturea" as needed.

Get kinky, its sterile!

Ok: I was lucky enough to never have even needed one single pad after my DaVinci surgury. I have never even "squirted" when sneeezing. But once or twice, If I am not careful, I may let a few drops out during climax. That is just something that we all have to live with. If I am careful and urinate immediately prior to sex, I never have even the slightest accident. If you purposely push and empty your bladder, well there is nothing to leak.

As others have said, urine is sterile. As we approach our new normal, both you and your wife will accept what happens. Be happy that your are able to make love! During the passion of intercouse, don't let a few drops of urine ruin things. I was incrediably focused on this at the beginning, but now I don't worry at all......I must admit that a few drops of urine at climax time during intercourse almost feels like and simulates that way things used to be with semen. If I limit things to a few drops , my wife does't mind at all. Other types of "activity" may require a condom, but in my opinion, as long as we keep the volume of urine at managable levels, no one is going to complain. Good luck.

Bill K. from NJ

Red – As you can see from the previous responses, it is not uncommon after a RP to have leakage during sex. You’ve been given extra tips already about emptying your bladder and limiting your fluid intake – you should particularly avoid caffeine and alcohol. Fatigue can exacerbate the problem. You might consider using a constriction band on the base of the penis. It is supposed to be very effective controlling both foreplay and orgasm associated incontinence. Another option to look into is a medicine called imipramine that has been used to help this condition. Although it’s a drug used to treat depression, one of the side effects is relaxing the bladder and causing the bladder neck to contract better. And not only is urine sterile it will not cause a yeast infection or a urinary tract infection in your wife.

Best -- Tigerfan