Hello everybody. I'm a 36 year old who is obese but in relatively okay health. I would like to share my situation and hopefully someone can offer me some guidance.
It all started about 3 weeks ago when I started getting a strange ache in the right side of my waist. Its very hard to pinpoint but I would say it's in the hip joint area. The pain seems to occur when I move a specific way.
Fast forward to April 9th. The pain seemed to get worse and for some strange reason I thought it might have been appendicitis so went to the ER too make sure it wasn't since we had an upcoming trip. Everything came back normal. ER even did a Urinalysis and CT scan to rule out kidney stone or severe kidney infection.
The very next day at 3:45pm I went to the bathroom and when I was done I got this aweful feeling like my bladder didn't empty out all the way. It sort of felt like when you hold it back while waiting to goto the bathroom.
Anyway I found my way to the local urgi-care who did another urinalysis (all clear). I don't know why but I asked the doctor to feel my prostate since that is the only other thing I can think of that could cause this. After a DRE she told me the following:
"Your prostate feels hard and enlarged". I asked if that is an indication of Prostate? She stated that she didn't feel any nodules during the exam it was just hard and enlarged, but the enlargement was normal for my age and I should follow up with a Urologist after my vacation and felt it is most likely a UTI (possible bladder infection).
I was put on a regimen of Bactrin while on vacation. Doctor told me that it would be enough for a UTI in addition to minor Prostatitis.
Vacation was very interesting with multiple trips to the men's room, dribbling after finishing, feeling like I still have to go, up multiple times at night.. UUGH. In addition to varying levels of discomfort I did manage to have a good time.
Anyway I spent alot of my time researching my symptoms and of course 3 things came back 100% of the time (BPS, Prostatitis and Prostate Cancer).
The thing that really scares me is that the symptoms of these 3 conditions are almost identical except for the hip pain which is only seen in PC (at least from what I've read). Oh I also forgot to mention alot of lower back pain but I've always had that. Seems to have gotten worse since I've been reading.
I"m not sure how to interpret the DRE of enlarged and hard, but normal for your age, no nodules.
Anyway I couldn't get to my usual urologist b/c he is changing offices so I picked one out of the phonebook and will start the process tomorrow.
I've been to my regular Urologist on a regular basis up to 2 years ago for treatent for reproductive issues. There have been DREs and other blood tests performed. There was never a mention or concern about prostate cancer.
Thanks for listening to me. I just fear I'm one of these 36 year olds who has gotten PC and am already at the bone Met stage.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Nick