Hi Canuck77,
I work full time and usually have a fairly hectic day, I am at work around 7am but have a 45 minute drive to work, lunch is usually eaten on the go and I finish around 5.30pm, the drive home is about an hour. I know these hours don't help with the fatigue, come 8.30/9.00 I will doze off to sleep in front of the TV much to my wife's horror and could sleep until 1am and then I am awake for an hour or so before going back to sleep. Some nights early after I started Zoladex I would be awake until 3-4am before I went back to sleep. I did often sleep on the lounge in the TV room because I could then easily turn the TV back on when I woke up. It is very difficult on our relationship.
Early afternoon is also a danger time for wanting to doze off, I have to be careful at meetings in the afternoon.
Regarding the SE it really took a couple of months for them to start, the hot flushes were the first to start and I found them happening within weeks of the first injection. The ED was about a month.
My blood pressure was progressive over 3-4 months and took about 12 months of trial and error to get it down to acceptable levels, I also had to monitor my BP morning and night because of the bypass surgery I had at the end of August 2010. I now only take my BP every morning.
Not everyone gets all of the SE and you may find that you have a different level of reaction than what I do. The hardest are the emotional and the depression, I still take medication for depression. I went to a cancer counsellor for my depression. I was very withdrawn for 6-8 months after my diagnosis and starting HT. I think I am still more withdrawn than prior to diagnosis.
I haven't had any other treatment, Cosudex for 30 days to start, Zoladex 10.8mg at 15 days and then 3 monthly. My PSA was 200 when diagnosed 1st July 2010 and Gleason 5+4 and 4+4. The PC had metastized to my bones and lymph nodes. My ADT or HT basically started to fail after 8 months when my PSA got down to 3.2 before starting to steadily rise again.I basically was classified as castrate resistant after 8 months.
I joined the Prevail clinical trial for MDV3100 in December 2011. This hasn't really effected my PSA as it has been slowly increasing since December 2011, however, CT and bone scans have shown a retraction of the PC. I am still in the trial and there hasn't been any change in my PC in my bones since May 2012.
So far I have been very fortunate, I am not in any pain and really would not be aware I have PC except for the urinary and the SE of the ADT. The urinary side has now been fixed, I have had 2 Holep operations to relieve the pressure/restriction on my urethra where it passes through my prostate.
Another SE which I forgot to mention is penile shrinkage. This has been unbelievable, my penis is now probable the same size as when I was a 10 year old. My uroligist told me I was imagining things ! I can assure you this is not something you imagine. I have since changed urologists. Not that I need to see a uroligist at the moment, I am now under the care of an oncoligist.
I am sure penile shrinkage, inability to get an erection, no sex life are some of the things that contribute to a male's depression. They are all very hard to accept. But at the end of the day I am still alive and able to basically do anything but with a little adjustment.
I wish you well in your journey and fight.