I love saying Grumpenstein too, and welcome to our club. I was like you, I joined HW after my surgery and had never talked to anyone who had PC or this surgery. After 2 years of being here some of my dearest friends in life are members here and we all have this PC crap in common.
I see you live in Florida so keep looking for posts about GFMPH gatherings in Florida for next March. That will give you the chance to meet many of us in person. I am hosting the first GFMPH Cruise in December and we have 12 HW couples booked so far. BTW GFMPH means "Good for Men's Prostate Health" Stick around and you will learn much more about how to use GFMPH to get more out of life. Come to a gathering and it will be Grumpenstein meets Wampuscat!!
Terry