Welcome to the other side! I had my RP on Wed, Oct 2 (12 days ago). The comments in this forum, going into my surgery, were very informative and comforting, but it was GREAT to finally be getting answers to the kinda scary "I wonder what THAT will REALLY be like?" type questions.
And "I wonder what the catheter will be like" was a HUGE scary question for me, as I assume it was for all of us. I really hated it, but a couple of things helped me. First, I snipped (very carefully!) any pubic hairs (some were on my scrotum) long enough to get wrapped around the catheter tube. On the first day, I noticed (even though I HATED even looking at my poor penis with this THING stuck in it) some hairs getting wrapped in some of the sticky fluid coming out around the cath and hairs getting stuck in the muck. Irritating.
Then, twice a day, I pulled my penis back along the catheter tube exposing as much of the tube as was comfortable, cleaned any gunk that might dry and harden and stick to the catheter tube, then I used a qtip to apply a nice coating of the lubrication jelly they gave me at the hospital to the newly exposed tube. Then I let my penis slide back and forth once or twice to insure a good coating of at least a part of the tube that was inside my penis. By day two, after surgery, I still hated it, but it was possible to get comfortable - even when walking. But it remained an annoyance and it was tough to sleep. I took the stool softeners for the first two days because I noticed that if I bore down trying to dump - even a little - some fluid would leak out around the catheter and I figured that that junk would only increase the irritation of the cath. Once the big BM finally came the night of day 2, the world was a happier place.
I was able to return to work on day 5, despite the cath - starting off with two days of off-site, back to back meetings. Here's an exchange I never thought I'd have: "Anyone need a Bio break?" "I don't know, let me look."
On Day 7, I mowed the lawn, feeling fine.
The catheter came out on day 9 and life is GOOOOOOOD! I'm dry, but peeing is different. There used to be a bit of a pause (maybe a half second) between when I got everything lined up over the toilet and gave the signal to pee and the start of the stream. Now it is IMMEDIATE. Gotta be ready and properly aimed! It's only been three days since the cath came out. Though I'm dry, I'm still wearing the pads until I'm sure I can stay dry in every situation. The pads with the adhesive stuck in my briefs are not the least bit uncomfortable.
My Dr has me taking a quarter dose of Viagra every day. Not for erections yet, but to stimulate blood flow to keep the penile tissue healthy. Once a week I'm supposed to take a full pill and try to get an erection. That strategy requires 10 pills a month. My insurance company is a pain and will only cover 6 per month, but I can buy the others. UGH! I am hopeful, though.
Welcome to the other side - I hope it works out even better for you!
Best of luck!