I thought threads were usually locked because of a rule violation, not because someone fears a rule MIGHT be violated by posts not yet in existence. I've read Sephie's short thread and Tony's longer thread and can't find anything but good comments, yet they're both locked.
Mods, feel free to delete or lock this one, too, but my goodness, a bit of soul-searching about what we maybe shouldn't be doing to our members doesn't seem to deserve a lock on the thead.
Oh, and Tony, HW will be a poorer place without your presence.