Jaxum - please accept this in the spirit it is intended.
You have to get off the denial train with it being only an hour and 15 minute drive from Fontana CA to Marina Del Rey.
If as you say you work til you drop, what good is that $$ you made by not taking off work?
Sounds at a minimum like a sick day. If advanced PCa is not sick, what is?
You do get vacation time don't you? or can you work comp time and trade a weekend day for a week day when doctor is available.
Whether it's Lam and Scholz there in Marina del Rey CAlif or some other medical onco, you owe it to yourself to have your advanced care in the hands/brain of a medical oncologist, not a urologist.
On the affordailioty front, how much effort have you made to find what financial assistate for PCa patients may be available?
Tough Love and prayers.
LupronJim
Post Edited (LupronJim) : 4/3/2014 6:53:56 PM (GMT-6)