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Posted 5/27/2014 7:16 PM (GMT 0)
I'm so sorry to see this. I second what Peter said -- I hope it is some comfort that he didn't have to suffer long with the emotions that follow the horrible news you'd just gotten.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers
Posted 5/27/2014 8:04 PM (GMT 0)
Nancy, prayers and blessings are coming from my home to yours. My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your husband. There isn't much any of us can say that will lessen the pain and loss, but we are all here to offer support and comfort however we can.

Sonny
Posted 5/27/2014 8:51 PM (GMT 0)
Our thoughts and prayers go out to YOU and your family.
Posted 5/27/2014 8:58 PM (GMT 0)
I'm sorry for your loss. Peace be with you.
Posted 5/27/2014 8:59 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear of his passing.  He and you will be in our prayers.  Bill
Posted 5/27/2014 9:02 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was surrounded by love and was taken care of by you. Also, how great is it to be able to say goodbye to all of your employees.
Posted 5/27/2014 9:40 PM (GMT 0)
So sorry to hear this. Prayers go out to you and your family.
1snake
Posted 5/27/2014 9:47 PM (GMT 0)
Nancy, my email is available too if you want to email and I can send you my phone number. I can not do anything to change what has happened but I hold out my hand to you to help steady you in this new journey. It is too much right now but know I am here.
My sympathies on your loss.
Posted 5/27/2014 9:49 PM (GMT 0)
Nancy, so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Posted 5/27/2014 10:25 PM (GMT 0)
Blessing to you and your family.
Cancer is like a mean dog that will bite you suddenly.
This time it bit hard.

Thank you for your post.

NEO
Posted 5/27/2014 10:39 PM (GMT 0)
Nancy-- I am sorry to read this sad news. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May the memory of your shared life together comfort you in your grief.

Tim
Posted 5/27/2014 10:44 PM (GMT 0)
This is the first time since I have been reading the posts that I see something like this.  Please accept my sincere sympathy.  I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.  Truly sorry.
Posted 5/27/2014 11:29 PM (GMT 0)
Nancy,
My condolences and prayers for you. I hope that your sister "warrior women" can assist you to heal. Take care of yourself and godspeed.
Bill idea
Posted 5/27/2014 11:46 PM (GMT 0)
I'm terribly sorry.. I have no comforting words
Posted 5/28/2014 12:47 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy,
Reading this breaks my heart. Prayers and positive thoughts headed to you and your family.
Words are often empty in times like this... but honestly know I'm thinking about you. Strange how you can feel the pain of strangers.
Posted 5/28/2014 1:29 AM (GMT 0)
So sorry Nancy. My heart aches for you. Prayers for you and your family.
Posted 5/28/2014 2:00 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy,
We don't know each other...

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa
Posted 5/28/2014 2:01 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Nancy, my prayers go out to you and your family. This was very similar to my Dads passing. God Bless.

Don
Posted 5/28/2014 2:03 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy,

I am so saddened to learn of your husband's passing.

Please know that you and your family will be kept in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted 5/28/2014 2:04 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Nancy,
Mandy and I are so sorry for the loss of your husband. It seems I never know what to say at times like this. You will be in our prayers. God bless. T and A
Posted 5/28/2014 2:19 AM (GMT 0)
I too am very sorry for your loss. We're are all the same here. Fighting a battle. Some of us will carry on the fight longer, and, some of us will fall, but it never hurts less to hear of one of our brothers passing. I'm so glad to hear that there was someone with him, to bring him home, to let him know that he was loved. I read that in your post despite your attempt at keeping a stiff upper lip. I am going to go hug my wife when she returns this evening.

DX 10/04/2013 PSA 187.5
07/11/2013 psa 3.31
3/10/2010 psa 1.87
1/24/2006 psa .87
Biopsy 10/28/2013 4 cores positive gs 9 (4+5)
Bone Scan 12/09/2013 2 hot spots in spine
Hormone Therapy started 12/17/2013 22mg lupron, 50 mg Casodex
Bone biopsy 01/09/2013 negative
RALP 2/19/2014
Pathology T3B NX, MX
Bilateral cancer found involving 6% of prostate
03/07/2013 PSA .6
Posted 5/28/2014 2:21 AM (GMT 0)
Another soldier/warrior........when can this stop? So many have gone this year......fast, slow....doesn't matter....it's that they are GONE.
We are left numb to the pain that we couldn't help make go away.......he's in a better place....but that's suppose to be my your side...what better place is there?
It makes me angry....knowing that so many more of us caregivers will be sharing grief with Nancy, Cathy, Pat and along with so many other's .....
I keep seeing my husband losing his battle every day. Taking the chemo therapies and still feeling fatigue, nauseous, weight lose, eyes not as bright as they once were, the guy he used to be before PC. I'm glad that it was fast and not this slow debilitating journey we have been on.
Sorry for my rantings...but I get so @#$% upset when I see another message like this one.....

More tears flood my eyes for you Nancy as I know I will follow in your footsteps sooner than I want..........be strong....

Sally
Posted 5/28/2014 2:23 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. Wishing you peace in time.

Juliet
Posted 5/28/2014 2:57 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy,
our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Jim and Marie
Posted 5/28/2014 2:57 AM (GMT 0)
Nancy, also very saddened and sorry by the passing of your husband. May he rest in peace, may you find some comfort from your memories together over time.

When we lose a PC here, regardless, I think we each lose a piece of ourselves.

David
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