Dr. Chemy:
If you are interested; here is my story for comparison:
My cancer was 10% of my prostate and as I mentioned it was in both lobes. So even though it turned out be a Gleason 6, I am sure glad that it was found in time and was removed. During my biopsy, they found 1 of 12 cores positive and that single core was 30%. I did a tremendous amount of reading on PCa during my 8 years of watching my PSA climb and found that Dr. William Catalona (inventor of the PSA test) was my best guidance during this time. Reading his many articles on the internet pushed me to be proactive to an extent far greater than my urologist. As an engineer, I actually plotted each 6 month PSA test to show my urologist the increasing trend and PSA velocity on a graph. According to Dr. Catalona; a PSA of 2.5 should be the number that triggers action. And I was around that for about 4 years. And he has often said that a man in his 50's should be at about 1.0 PSA maximum. Maybe a little higher for an enlarged organ.
I believed that my urologist secretly scoffed at me by my worrying and plotting my numbers as well as quoting Dr. Catalona. My wife thought that I was blowing things out of proprtion and that I was obsessed with this. But in the end, I did have PCa. I had many things in my favor...a very low density, neg. DRE's, and even the ultrasound guidance during the biopsy showed a uniform prostate- most likely cancer free. But it was there anyway.
I don't know your age or how much sex means to you. Sex was very important to me. So I calculated that in order to remove the cancer and still spare as many nerves as possible, having surgery at that time was important. And a found an experienced surgeon with a good record for maintaining erections. I was lucky and had immediate urinary control as soon as the catheter was removed. Never used one pad or had even one accident! I had ED for over a year and simply used 5 mg. daily of generic Cialis, a vacuum pump (2 times a day). I was a quite discouraged with the ED, since I expected to be 100% in about 2 months. But there is much trauma in the area and it usually takes quite a bit longer. But at age 61- 1/2 now, my sex life is 95% of what it was when I was 58 and that is perfect if you figure the natural aging process.
I am by no means any type of medical professional. But someone who understands probability and statistics and spent a considerable amount of time reading about PSA / free PSA. I guess I could have gone the Active Surveilance route, but that is not in my mental nature. I am glad that my prostate is out...nomograms show that after 3 years of being cancer free with my stats; I have a 98+% chance of being cured. I do not get up at night to urinate, and I can pee with the force of a firehouse ( a 6 foot stream!). Finally, I was very depressed and scared upon finding out that I had PCa. But I look back now and the ordeal (including the surgery) wasn't bad at all! You will find that this forum is a great place to get first hand information. It helped me greatly!
Bill K. from NJ