Squidly, let me add my greetings, welcome and sorry you need to be here but very glad you found us. I'm a G9 and relatively young for this, 56 now. It's so shocking, and you may find it hard sometimes just to keep breathing. It will get easier to bear over a couple of weeks, and it'll become your new normal. You have a lot of research to do in a short time, and you've come to a good place to ask questions. There are some really knowledgeable people here, even though we're all just folks with PCa.
We have a Gleason 9 Crew thread that's been running for a while now, and I've added you to the roster. A lot of people have posted there, and you may find it encouraging to see how many there are and how well so many are doing.
Here's a link to that thread:
www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35&m=2863652All the best, and do feel free to ask, share, vent, whine, whatever you feel like you need to do. Everybody here has been where you are to one degree or another; we're here for you.