Sue, my heart goes out to you and Dave as you search for something to help. It has to be sooo scary for you when he has such a hard time breathing! The jevtana, I think is the same as cabazataxil, helped Gary a LOT, and he could receive it since they figured out how to administer it without the horrible vascular reaction that turned him beet red the first time. He tolerated it amazingly well and felt really great. I think he managed 12 treatments before it failed. What is Dave's psa now (sorry if you posted and I missed it)? I would suggest just trying to get on the chemo asap, as the xofigo is palliative for pain, from my understanding and the jevtana is a treatment to kill cancer. We just returned from Portland on Sat and today Gary was feeling really good, and for the first time in weeks didn't need any nausea meds when he woke up. I was told the vaccine would not "kick in" his immune response for several weeks, but I believe in miracles and we are all praying for one. Keeping you and Dave and all the others from the "corner" in my thoughts and prayers daily. See if you can find the thread about
DRibbles that PDA responded to with a whole lot of information about
the vaccine. It is grown from lung cancer cells and uses the ribosomes from a cancer cell in the vaccine. Unfortunately Providence doesn't have any more current funding for more prostate patients, but perhaps if Gary responds well they will get some more backing. You'll be the first to know if I hear of more patients.
I received a sweet card from my coworkers today that defined me as a "tough
cookie". That's what PCa does to those living with it. While it is slow growing and most can be successfully treated for years, it feels at times like it takes over your life and holds you hostage.
Gary and I have learned to take advantage of every "good" day by doing something memorable and fun, and I have made a conscious effort to continue to exercise and do stuff for myself, even if I have to leave him for a few hours while he's feeling miserable.
Try to take some time for you too Sue, as hard as it is to find time.
Sending you a cyber hug
Beth