Welcome aboard TallBill!
Boy your urologist sure has an attitude, firing you if you pick AS. I think I would fire him and find another urologist. Maybe he won't treat the next patient like that again. Your uro needs to be your friend and guide you.
With PCa, you will be going back to him\her for many years after treatment so they need to give you unbiased advice. My uro suggested surgery but also suggested I talk to a radiologist. I decided on surgery then went back and asked him who he would have do surgery if it were him having it done. He recommended the surgeon I eventually chose who had done thousands of surgeries.
Do your research, you have time, and find the treatment that is best for you. Each treatment has it's side effects, find the one that will do the job you want.
I would not spend a lot of time on the internet. Maybe search for doctors you may want to discuss treatment with. The good thing about
Healing Well is you now have brothers and sisters who will help you by telling you what we did , what worked and didn't work. It is hard to discuss this with co-workers or some other relatives.
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Bill from Florida