Posted 10/11/2015 2:51 AM (GMT 0)
A free "Health Fair" PSA screening & DRE rang the alarm bell and sent me off for a biopsy, the first (and second) one both negative..PC was diagnosed 18 months later after PSA reached 9.2 and a third biopsy was performed...Gleason 9, surgery, positive margin, RT failed, on ADT now and forever.....
Had my cancer never been discovered and I went on blissfully unaware, would my termination date have been the same as as what it is now?? Impossible to answer. My doctors tell me that without the aggressive treatment I have endured I would have been dead in 2 years.....But they are just guessing....With the treatment, I'm still alive and reasonably well going on 6 years...My last PSA test was somewhat alarming, from 0.4 to 1.2 in six months so the honeymoon might be over....The dreaded "Hormone Refractory" milestone awaits us all.....
We all share your loss Sue, truly a tragic story..but trying to assess blame on "The System", lashing out at others, that's not what took your husband away...The day he died was pretty much determined the moment he was conceived...This board is full of stories of men who DID detect their PC VERY early, had it treated, thought they were cured, only to find out 2, 3, 4 years down the road the monster had returned, slipped out of its cage and was stalking them again...
Be thankful for the wonderful years you had together, close that chapter and start a new one. Don't look back, think about tomorrow not yesterday...Best of luck to you...